“What if she never goes to university?” You don’t lose your money.
It’s the question that stops more Canadian parents from opening an RESP than any other — and the honest answer is far less frightening than the silence around it. Your contributions always come back to you, tax-free. Here is exactly what happens to every dollar.
Three pools, three different outcomes.
Your contributions are returned to you tax-free, always. The government grants are repaid to the government. Only the investment income carries a real decision — and even that has options far better than simply cashing out.
Notice what is not on that list: losing your own savings. The worst realistic outcome is that you get your money back, hand back money the government gave you, and pay tax on the growth. That is not a catastrophe — and there are three ways to improve on it.
Before anything else: check what actually counts as school
Qualifying programs are much broader than a university degree — colleges, CEGEPs, trade schools, apprenticeships, and many part-time and distance programs can qualify, in Canada and often abroad. A great many families who assume the plan is wasted find it isn’t. Check before you conclude anything.
What would collapsing the plan actually cost?
This shows the difference between cashing the growth out and sheltering it in an RRSP first — which for most families is the single biggest decision on this page.
Runs entirely in your browser — we don’t store or see your numbers. It applies the published federal treatment: contributions returned tax-free, grants repaid, and remaining income taxed at your marginal rate plus an additional 20% (12% for Quebec residents — this estimator uses 20%), with up to $50,000 of income transferable to an RRSP where room exists. It assumes the conditions for an Accumulated Income Payment are already met and does not model provincial variations, withholding, or the effect of the RRSP deduction on your overall return. Educational illustration only — get tax advice before collapsing any plan.
Six things to do before you collapse the plan.
Wait. Just wait.
The plan can stay open for 35 years — 40 for a specified plan. A nineteen-year-old with no interest in school is often a twenty-four-year-old in an apprenticeship. Waiting costs nothing; collapsing is irreversible, and the grants don’t come back once repaid.
Let a sibling use it
A family plan lets siblings share contributions and, within limits, the grant. Individual plans can often transfer to a sibling’s plan too, subject to age and relationship conditions. The Canada Learning Bond is the exception — it stays with the child it was paid for.
Check what counts as a qualifying program
Trade school, apprenticeship, college, CEGEP, many part-time and distance programs, and often study abroad. Families write plans off far too early because they’re picturing a campus.
Move the growth to your RRSP
Up to $50,000 over your lifetime can go to your own or your spouse’s RRSP if you have the room — sheltering it from both the regular tax and the extra tax. It needs the right forms through your promoter, so arrange it deliberately.
If there’s a disability, look at the RDSP route
Where the RESP beneficiary is also an RDSP beneficiary, the growth can in defined circumstances roll into the RDSP instead of being taxed out, within the RDSP’s $200,000 lifetime limit. The conditions are precise — get specialist advice.
Only then, take the payment
The growth is added to your income and taxed an extra 20% (12% in Quebec). Conditions apply before it’s even permitted. It’s a legitimate option — just the last one, not the first.
Questions worried parents ask
What happens to the money if my child doesn’t go to post-secondary?
How long can I leave the plan open?
Does it have to be university?
Can another child use it instead?
What is an Accumulated Income Payment, and what does it cost?
How do I avoid the extra 20% tax?
What if my child has a disability?
Don’t let this question stop you starting.
If you’ve been putting off opening an RESP because of the what-if, that hesitation has probably already cost you more in unclaimed grants than the worst-case outcome ever would. A free call: what the realistic downside actually looks like for your family, and how to build the plan so it stays flexible.
Harpreet Singh · Licensed advisor (LLQP, Ontario) · Proudly Canadian. This page is general information only — not financial, investment, insurance, or tax advice, and not a recommendation to collapse, retain, or transfer any plan. The rules governing qualifying educational programs, grant repayment, Accumulated Income Payments and the conditions for making them, RRSP and RDSP transfers, plan duration, and the additional tax (20%, and 12% for residents of Quebec) are set by the Government of Canada, administered by the Canada Revenue Agency and Employment and Social Development Canada, and may change; details reflect published guidance current at the time of writing and should be confirmed at canada.ca. Individual plan terms may be more restrictive than federal rules. Tax outcomes depend on your full circumstances — obtain tax advice before collapsing a plan. The estimator is an educational illustration based on the figures you enter and uses the 20% additional tax rate. Speak with a qualified advisor about your own situation.

